OUR LIVES AS A FAMILY OF 12...

Things have been going as "expected" around here.  First, let me start by introducing our new children by their nicknames.  Oldest son is "Charmer".  Middle son is "Lightning".  Youngest son is "Spiderman"

That in itself tells you a bit about their personalities.  Charmer is doing pretty well.  On the surface, he tends to pull away more quickly.  However, I have figured out by teasing him a bit he very quickly lightens up and will receive the affection.  He DOES NOT like to share.  I really think he spent a lot of time being "dad" to his younger brothers and it is just hard letting anyone else be the parent.  Also, he has the memories of the loss much more vividly.  But boy, does he know how to charm :)

Lightning is doing pretty well.  He had surgery as a baby for a twisted colon and that contributes to bathroom "issues".  We have noticed that he uses it now more as a control thing.  His life is out of control - third move in two weeks - new parents - new siblings - a lot of structure which they did not have at all before.  So, it makes sense.  I have noticed that since we instituted him wearing a pull-up, the "accidents" have totally ceased.

Spiderman - he is a loving little boy.  He is so good and accepting and seeking out affection.  Most of the time, he knows to come to me when he is hurt, needs a hug, etc.  And he never would sit in "time-ins" before...EVER!!  Already he has figured out he needs to finish his consequence and then he can get out.  That is huge progress as I laid awake in AZ wondering if he would ever be able to sit still!!!

Z-girl is regressing a bit.  To be expected, but still hard.  We keep telling her she has to help "teach" the boys how our family works, how following God and his rules are the way we live and I am hoping that will help her change the behavior.

Peanut butter is NOT enjoying mommy having slightly distracted time right now.  But she did give Charmer a hug today of her own free will.

We are blessed...tired and blessed.  The first few months are going to be a lot of figuring out life.  I am glad it is not time to do school yet!!!